Last year I read the book Finish by Jon Acuff, and man, it spoke to me.
In it he talks a lot about how people set goals, and some of the reasons they get derailed and never finish their goals. Of course there are a lot of reasons things don’t go as planned, but one of the biggest (and the one I related to the most) goes something like this: I have a goal of listing a minimum of 12 new items per day. I am trucking along, getting my listings up and feeling really good about it, but then life happens and one day I just can’t get it done. I let it derail me, and instead of dusting myself off and starting again tomorrow I feel discouraged that my streak is over and less motivated to try again. And before I know it a month has slipped by without me being consistent and I feel frustrated and defeated.
One of the strategies Acuff suggests in combating this is: Cut your goal in half.
I love it. It’s brilliant.
Making the base goal so much more attainable elevates my motivation to try and achieve and keep achieving. It’s the marathon-not-a-sprint or tortoise-and-the-hare mindset. Keep plugging away, possibly at a slower pace, but being able to attain the goals builds momentum and I’m more likely to end up where I want to be, even if it takes a bit longer than I want it to.
In my life there are three areas that I always feel I am striving to do better.
#1 – make more money
#2 – manage my health
#3 – home organization
{Of course there are other priorities as well, such as my family, but I feel like I already do a good job in that area. I don’t feel I need to make a more concerted effort to stay on track.}

These are my “cut the goal in half” bare minimum daily to-dos that I keep track of in a memo on my phone.
Work related:
eBay – create at least 6 new listings.
Poshmark – crosslist 4 items
Mercari – crosslist 4 items
Health related:
Track my food/exercise on the Lose It app.
Exercise for at least 20 minutes/day.
Home organization:
Focused 30 minutes of organization/purging/cleaning.
Bonus:
Add at least one post on my kid blog. (Mostly just for the grandparents and for me to eventually print out in lieu of a photo album. I am super behind.)
Do I have other goals I want to get done every day? Of course. Do I want to get more than just six items listed on eBay every day? Absolutely. But for some reason instead of having a huge goal in front of me (where I will eventually flounder) having these small bite-size goals to work on each day keeps me really motivated.
I know these goals don’t look like much. Some days they are all knocked out in the morning. Some days I finish up just before midnight. I also give myself the weekends off from trying to meet all of the goals, which helps me push through the weekdays – knowing a weekend is coming. My hope is that it will be a recipe for consistency and sustainability.
Do you have any specific goals this year? How are you going about attaining them? I would love to hear about it!
I try to list 5 items per weekend. Small but attainable for me. Reselling merely underwrites what I buy on thrift for myself.
Trying to hold myself to my 2020 Buy No Fabric Challenge, with the exception of quilt tops and blocks (those I resell).
Hoping to have a fiber art entry in the 2020 California State Fair.
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I love “small but attainable”! That’s pretty much my mindset this year too. I really believe smaller, consistent goals will get me farther than trying to do everything all in all at once.
What kind of fiber art do you create? That sounds interesting.
Finish is definitely on my to read list, as well as his book, Start :). I feel like I need to do both in different areas of my life. I once heard a reseller say that her goal is to list just two items per day. Reselling is her full time job, so there is no way that she could just get by with listing just two items every day. The point of that goal is just to get started because after she’s done two, it’s easier to do more than that. Sometimes we just have to make ourselves do something and then the momentum will keep us rolling.
I haven’t read Start, but I probably should.
I totally feel the “2 items a day” concept. That makes 100% sense to me. Thanks for sharing!